And you’re the ball. At an individual level, you’ll see persons, raised by a sociopath or other negative profile, who have learnt to their detriment that they were nothing and the other everything… and will fall again and again in the hungry jaws of a manipulator who would have instantly appraised the weakness. Because this
So before shouting on the sociopaths of the other camp, we should denounce the psychopaths in our own. Because those are the people who hurt what we hold dear the most.
Yet, their universal two steps method, whatever the context, is very easy to grasp: 1/ the sociopaths or psychopaths are the victims of an organization, a person, a group of persons… And at the same time, they iare strong. It’s a strong and courageous victim.Ahum. 2/ they are going to stir in others to defend
I was recently reading a book of a clairvoyant talking about a personal experience he said he had with an Archangel that would have saved his life. And when I go to see at the end of the book, the photograph of the lucky bastard – because yes, I believe in angels and happen to
As far as my lectures and my experience go, there are many signs who can help you identify a manipulator (from the narcissist to the psychopath). Of course, some manipulators won’t have all the characteristics of their species and the cleverest of them all, the psychopath, will hide behind a mask. But even they will
Bad faith is to the manipulator what a racket is to the table tennis player: indispensable. I was thinking about this when I was assisting to my daughter’s college’s reunion on pedagogic trips. When it was “explained” why the direction had taken the unilateral decision to banish screens from the bucolic adventure. The argument, aired
Negative people are always the heroes of their own made-up movie. When we, empathic people have a heart to remind us that we are just one human being among many others, and also a conscience to have us think – sometimes mercilessly – about others’ perspective and our own faults, when we have lucidity, this
In French, being empathic means the faculty to put oneself in the other’s place. To walk in his shoes, so to speak. To be comprehensive: an identification. Whereas in English, being empathic can mean much more: the gift to feel the other person’s emotion. In a mediumistic kind of way: a perception. I prefer the
Lucidity is necessary to prevent us from being attracted to seductive but destructive alternate realities created tailor-made for us by manipulators.
Evil begins with lies. And as manipulators are so talented for editing the truth, wearing masks (not the protective one, it would seem, alas), create alternative realities and, on the whole, live in a shadowy world… It’s necessary for us, good people, to stay lucid.Even when truths are disagreeable. We are so often misleaded, on