I write for you, if you are a good person. I write for you because my personal experience has enabled me to know how to recognize negative people and my formation in Reiki had me understand they are much more of them than I thought. Surely more of them than you imagine. I write for
blind trust is never healthy
And as I’ve been there and done that quite a lot, I should know…
doctor’s daughter
“There had to be a daughter of a colleague to be such a pain in the ass!”It’s November 12th of 2006, the day before my daughter was brought to the world by caesarean section and three gynaecologists stand in front of my clinical bed.It’s been three days and three nights since I was diagnosed with
sociopaths lust after anthills…
So have a care when there is an overwhelming discourse about security: the ultimate goal could be to take your freedoms.
the anthill
The wet dream of any ambitious psychopath or sociopath is an anthill.It’s the communist or fascist dystopia when the whole population enters a predetermined role. It’s a world where the sociopath would be the only queen with a personal guard, soldiers, and a whole bunch of indistinct peasants.It’s an universe where nobody would dare being
not being a pawn anymore…
Negative people are always strategical. And it would be nice if more and more empathetic people were to study and understand the whole chess board before moving. To not always be prone to sacrificing oneself or being sacrificed.
perfectionism versus strategy
Modern psychology, to my mind, doesn’t take sufficiently into account that there are two definite categories of human beings.And that these two categories don’t behave the same way at all. Resiliency for example, that has been so glorified these last twenty years and was pointing at the victory of the psyche against adversity, is a
dangerous ego
There are two situations that can over-inflate the ego and they’re just on the opposite sides of the scale: when a person has been led to think he/she is so very important or when a person has been traumatized. Either way, the path downhill through is the same.
the signs that point to a manipulator II
(you can read “the signs that point to a manipulator I” here) 5. he doesn’t cope well with criticism At all. He loves himself and you have to love him too. Absolutely. Without any reserve.The tiniest hint to a critic will be met by veiled hostility or better yet, if he can afford it, full
the two paths to sociopathy and company
There are two paths that can pull a personal on an negative path, to become a sociopath, or an egotistical person, a narcissist and psychopath. And both – surprise, surprise ! – go through the ego. On the first path will walk those who have lived injustices or trauma. Beware of the survivor or resilient