When it looks too good to be true, it most certainly is. Modern Proverb
But we shouldn’t give up.Ever.
Manipulators manipulate, will drain your energy or pump your air, will try to depreciate you, will exploit you for their benefit, will crush you…They destroy anything they find in their path, again and again and again and again. Civilizations survive despite narcissistic people and their parasitic way of life, which is to always look after
She will remind her partner, again and again, how fragile she is, that any draft could give her a cold that she is desperate and the world is mean.
The more you climb the social ladder, the more manipulative women you meet.Also manipulative men, of course. But it’s my personal experience that there are more women than men among well-off manipulators.Thousand of years of oppression have made it so, I guess, as there were a lot of women who were truly bruised – to
Well, maybe it’s because your energy is used by somebody else…
All negative people are energy vampires: they just don’t know how to generate enough energy by loving, looking at the see, hugging a tree…Well of course! The quasi or total absence of heart emotions makes it quite difficult. Negative people need your energy, my empathetic friend. And when egotistical or simple narcissists will pump it
When people choose egotism, they choose a slope. A slope to more and more mental disequilibrium. A slope to more anger and rage.More victimhood and paranoia. But more importantly these people will slide into more and more alternative reality, less and less built on truth and actual facts. Because, as they get older, egotistic people,
An ego which would not be tightly leashed is fated to expand.But some people go further: they leave it roam with a free rein. It’s like giving a snow ball permission to have fun in the slope: it will go to the avalanche. And what annoys me – trying to stay polite here – are
In a humanity manipulators would like nothing more than to paint in fifty shades of greys, getting rid of the last dredges of responsibility in the process, because if everyone and his neighbour does it, why wouldn’t they… I personally see a very definite limit and I found it in empathy. Empathy, you have it