And with that in mind, I choose to be indulgent with myself. I’ve believed for a long time, that some people close to me were strong because they never really broke down, when in fact they were so weak that they chose, when they were kids, to cut themselves from their difficult emotions, instead of
For my classification of negative profiles based on energy, I simplified, on purpose, to three main categories. But I could as well have chosen to identify four categories, as when a person is a -6 or -7 on my Geiger counter of negativity, he or she is what I called an “intense narcissist”. Which is
It’s my analysis that we have distinct inner voices, the voice of your heart, the voice of your conscience, the voice of your ego, the voice of your intelligence, the voice of your intuition and the voice of your personality or soul. A negative person, who became so because of a traumatized event or childhood,
I wrote an article on the six voices that are part of our psyche. I precise another time here – and blablabla – that I’m no professional of psychology, just a professional on energies. As such, I’m convinced that these six voices (ego, cleverness, personality, heart, intuition, conscience) have a different importance for people, as
The ego voice begins to make itself heard, when a baby realizes that he has a distinct identity from his mother. The famous temper of a two years old? For something or nothing and a toy that has been refused? Ego. And the most part of the education we give a kid, to enable him
These are not, of course, voices with different tonalities and sources that would give us the impression that someone else is living with us in our head and Napoleon wants to talk to us. Of course not! It’s just that as time went by – too much of it!- and maturity is coming upon me,
They stage an inverse reality, where they are the good guys and the victims of your villainy.
Positive people are the guardrails of the manipulators. And even more so, the guardrails of narcissists who, more than often, can’t count on their cleverness to be high enough to fight against the daily delirium whispered in their brain by their over-inflated ego. We can fully envision it, this delirium, when a narcissist, in Turkmenistan
And the first of the five agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz says just that : “be impeccable with your word!”. Because, to paraphrase the quote attributed to Franck Outlaw, your thoughts can be expressed in words, your words can become actions, which transform in habits, on which your character is built. And ultimately your character
This ordeal can enable us to learn from our mistakes and build a better world. But a negative person won’t ever so it: he will never take his responsibilities. It will fall on us, then, positive people, to take care of it.